How can I effectively screen for domestic abuse in patients who may be reluctant to disclose their experiences?

Guideline-aligned answer with reasoning, red flags and references. Clinically reviewed by Dr Kola Tytler MBBS CertHE MBA MRCGP.

Posted: 16 August 2025Updated: 16 August 2025 Guideline-Aligned (High Confidence) Clinically Reviewed
Dr Kola Tytler MBBS CertHE MBA MRCGPClinical Lead • iatroX

To effectively screen for domestic abuse in patients who may be reluctant to disclose their experiences, it is crucial to create a safe and private environment and use sensitive questioning techniques .

  • Create a Safe and Private Environment:

    Always allow the person to make a disclosure alone in private, ensuring no third parties are present, including children, partners, relatives, or friends . This is vital as disclosing in front of others, especially those who might share information with the perpetrator, increases risk . Ensure the person feels safe, is given time and space to talk, and questions are asked in a kind, sensitive manner . Listen closely, with empathy, and without judgement . Reception areas should be arranged to ensure maximum privacy so that people cannot be overheard . Display information about support for those affected by domestic violence and abuse in waiting areas, including local and national helpline numbers . This information should be available in various formats and languages, and discreet methods like pens or key rings with helpline numbers can also be used . Healthcare professionals should be alert to features suggesting domestic abuse .

  • Use Sensitive Questioning:

    Ask open or direct questions about domestic abuse, depending on clinical judgement . Many victims may not disclose unless directly questioned under safe and respectful conditions .

    • Open questions can include: 'How are things at home?' or 'Sometimes symptoms can be triggered by stressful events in our relationships, has anything like that happened to you?' . Another approach is 'We know violence at home can be a problem, is there anyone who is hurting you?' .
    • Direct questions can include: 'Do you feel safe at home?' or 'Does anyone make you feel afraid?' . You might also ask, 'Do you feel safe in your relationship?' or 'Is there anything that worries you about your relationship?' . For injuries, consider asking, 'These injuries are more than I would expect following a fall, I'm wondering if someone else might have hurt you?' .

    Use gender-neutral terms such as 'partner/ex-partner' to encourage disclosure from all individuals, including LGBT victims .

  • Ensure Confidentiality and Professional Interpretation:

    Advise the person that any discussion is confidential and that information will be shared only with their consent, subject to practice policy on adult and child safeguarding . Emphasise confidentiality, as this reassurance can influence disclosure . Information sharing without consent risks losing trust and endangering safety . However, there are limits to confidentiality in exceptional circumstances, such as a risk of serious harm to a child or vulnerable adult . If a professional interpreter is needed, use a professional service rather than the person's child, relative, or friend, as there is a significant risk that people experiencing domestic abuse may be less likely to disclose with someone they know in the room ,. Ensure interpreting services are confidential .

  • Staff Training and Follow-up:

    All healthcare staff should be trained to recognise possible signs of domestic abuse, enquire sensitively and safely, understand patient confidentiality, and know how to respond to a disclosure . Ongoing training and regular supervision for staff asking about domestic abuse are important to sustain good practice . Survivors are more likely to disclose if they have a trusting relationship with their healthcare professional . Therefore, offer follow-up and continuity of care, viewing the conversation as the start of a process rather than a one-off event .

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